If you are caring for a loved one at home, you are doing one of the most generous and demanding things a person can do. Day after day, week after week β often with little recognition, little respite, and precious little time to simply be yourself rather than a carer.
At Abbey Support & Services, we believe that looking after the person doing the caring is just as important as looking after the person being cared for. Our respite care and sitting service in Leicester is designed entirely around that belief β giving family carers the freedom to rest, recover, attend appointments, or simply step away for a few hours.
You do not need to have reached a crisis point before you ask for help. Reaching out early β before exhaustion takes hold β is the wisest thing a family carer can do.

There are an estimated 6.5 million unpaid carers in the United Kingdom β people who provide care for a spouse, parent, sibling or friend without formal training, financial compensation or guaranteed support. In Leicester and Leicestershire, tens of thousands of families are in exactly this position.
Carer burnout is not a character failing. It is a predictable consequence of sustained, unsupported caring β and it affects the quality of care as much as it affects the wellbeing of the carer. Research consistently shows that carers who receive regular respite are healthier, more resilient and able to provide better care over the long term.
Family carers who never rest face a well-documented pattern β increasing fatigue, deteriorating mental health, reduced patience, social isolation and, ultimately, the inability to continue caring at all. At that point, the person being cared for may face far more disruption than they would have faced if the family had accessed respite support earlier.
Planned, regular respite care is not stepping back from your responsibility. It is one of the most responsible things a family carer can do β for their loved one, and for themselves.
Our respite and sitting service at Abbey Support & Services provides a skilled, warm and reliable presence in your loved one's life β allowing you to take the time you need with confidence. Whether it is two hours on a Tuesday morning or a full day every Friday, our sitters are trained carers who can provide personal care, medication prompts, meals, activities and companionship.

Our respite and sitting carers are trained home care professionals β not volunteer befrienders or untrained sitters. Every visit is delivered to the same standard as our regular home care service.
Friendly, engaged company for your loved one during your absence β conversation, shared activities, reading aloud, music, puzzles or simply being present and attentive.
Our respite carers can provide full personal care support β washing, dressing, continence care and grooming β with the same discretion and dignity as your regular carer.
Prompting your loved one to take their medication at the correct times, monitoring intake and β where trained and authorised β administering medication in line with the care plan.
Preparing a hot or light meal, a cup of tea, snacks and drinks during the visit β monitoring food and fluid intake and noting any changes in appetite or swallowing.
Tailored activities suited to your loved one's interests, abilities and stage of life β gentle crafts, card games, walks in the garden, reminiscence activities or a favourite television programme.
Short accompanied walks or trips β to the local shops, a garden centre, a cafΓ© or community space β providing the social connection and gentle exercise that enrich wellbeing.
Keeping a watchful, caring eye on your loved one's safety throughout the visit β particularly important for clients living with dementia, mobility challenges or a risk of falls.
A written summary after every sitting visit β what was done, how your loved one seemed, anything notable β so you are always fully informed when you return.
When the unexpected happens β illness, a family emergency, an urgent appointment β we can often arrange emergency respite cover at short notice to ensure you are never left without support.
A consistent, scheduled sitting arrangement that builds into your week β giving you guaranteed time that you can plan around, and your loved one a familiar carer they look forward to.
No two family carers have identical needs β and our respite service is built to reflect that. Whether you need a handful of hours a week or a more substantial arrangement, we can work with you.
A consistent, scheduled sitting arrangement β the same carer at the same time each week. Whether it is two hours on a Wednesday morning or every weekday afternoon, a regular pattern gives you guaranteed time you can depend on.
Best for: Family carers who need guaranteed, recurring time away from caring responsibilities.
If you are planning a holiday, a family event or an extended period away, we can arrange sitting cover for the full duration β daily visits, overnight care or live-in support β so you can travel with complete peace of mind.
Best for: Family carers planning a holiday, a trip or an extended absence.
When something unexpected happens β illness, a family emergency, a last-minute commitment β we do our best to arrange emergency respite at short notice. We cannot always guarantee immediate availability, but we will always respond quickly.
Best for: Families who suddenly find themselves without carer cover and need urgent support.
Sometimes a family carer simply needs to stop β not for a specific reason, but because they are tired, overwhelmed or close to the edge. Requesting respite before a crisis is not a sign of weakness β it is excellent carer self-management.
Best for: Family carers who are approaching or experiencing burnout and need regular, sustained relief.
Full flexibility β choose your days, times and visit frequency. Invoiced monthly with complete transparency. No hidden charges.
If your loved one has been awarded a local authority personal budget, direct payments can fund respite and sitting visits with Abbey.
Family carers are entitled to a Carer's Assessment from Leicester City Council or Leicestershire County Council, which may result in funded respite support.
For clients whose loved one is funded through NHS CHC, respite care may be included within the funded care package. Please contact us to discuss.
Did you know? As a family carer, you have a legal right to a Carer's Assessment from your local council β which may result in funded respite support. Find out more β

Getting respite care in place does not have to be complicated. We keep the process as straightforward and quick as possible β because we know that by the time a family carer is looking for respite, they often need it soon.
Call us on +44 07718 170186, email info@abbeysupportandservices.com, or complete our availability check form below. We respond the same day.
For sitting and respite visits, we can often complete the initial assessment by phone or video call β particularly for emergency arrangements. If a home visit is needed, we will arrange this promptly.
We match your loved one with a respite carer whose personality, skills and approach are a good fit. Where time allows, we arrange a brief introduction so the first sitting visit feels familiar.
Your respite sitting visits begin at the agreed time. You have the confidence of knowing the sitter is a trained, CQC-regulated professional. We send a brief handover note after each visit.
Call us on +44 07718 170186, email info@abbeysupportandservices.com, or complete our availability check form below. We respond the same day.
For sitting and respite visits, we can often complete the initial assessment by phone or video call β particularly for emergency arrangements. If a home visit is needed, we will arrange this promptly.
We match your loved one with a respite carer whose personality, skills and approach are a good fit. Where time allows, we arrange a brief introduction so the first sitting visit feels familiar.
Your respite sitting visits begin at the agreed time. You have the confidence of knowing the sitter is a trained, CQC-regulated professional. We send a brief handover note after each visit.
The family carers we support tell us that respite care changed not just their week β but their life.
"I had not had a full morning to myself in three years. When Abbey started sending a sitter every Thursday, I cried on the way to my first yoga class β not because I was sad, but because I had almost forgotten what it felt like to be me. It has genuinely changed my life."
β Diane R.
Daughter and primary carer, Oadby
"Mum took to the sitter immediately β she calls her 'my Thursday friend.' I was nervous about how Mum would respond to someone new, but they matched her so well. Now I actually look forward to Thursdays as much as Mum does."
β Karen W.
Daughter of client, Wigston
"We used Abbey's respite cover for a full week while my husband and I went on holiday β our first in four years. The sitters visited my father-in-law twice daily, we received photos and notes every day, and he was genuinely happy when we came back."
β Susan T.
Daughter-in-law and family carer, Knighton
"I called on a Tuesday in desperate need of emergency cover β I had a hospital appointment I could not miss and no one to sit with my wife. Abbey had a carer there by 11am. The speed and the kindness of the response was something I will never forget."
β Brian H.
Husband and primary carer, Evington
When you step away from your caring role β even for a few hours β you need absolute confidence in the person you have left in your place.
Every sitter and respite carer who visits through Abbey is:
You will receive a written record after every sitting visit. You will never return home to silence β you will always know what happened while you were away.
No obligation, no pressure. Complete the form below and a member of our team will be in touch the same day to discuss your needs and check availability. You can also call us directly on +44 07718 170186.
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Our respite and sitting service covers Leicester city and the surrounding Leicestershire area β all delivered by locally based carers who know the community.
Check availability for respite care and sitting visits in Leicester today. Our team is ready to help β no obligation, no pressure, just a simple and supportive conversation.